feat: add content_hash backfill + register every media file

Adds blake3 content hashing as the basis for derivative dedup
(thumbnails, HLS) across libraries. Computed inline by the watcher on
ingest and by a new `backfill_hashes` binary for historical rows.

Key changes:
- `content_hash` and `size_bytes` are now populated on new image_exif
  rows; a new ExifDao surface (`get_rows_missing_hash`,
  `backfill_content_hash`, `find_by_content_hash`) supports backfill and
  future hash-keyed lookups.
- The watcher now registers every image/video in image_exif, not just
  files with parseable EXIF. EXIF becomes optional enrichment; videos
  and other non-EXIF files still get a hashed row. This also makes
  DB-indexed sort/filter cover the full library.
- `/image` thumbnail serve dual-looks up hash-keyed path first, then
  falls back to the legacy mirrored layout.
- Upload flow accepts `?library=` query param + hashes uploaded files.
- Store_exif logs the underlying Diesel error on insert failure so
  constraint violations surface instead of hiding behind a generic
  InsertError.
- New migration normalizes rel_path separators to forward slash across
  all tables, deduplicating any rows that collide after normalization.
  Fixes spurious UNIQUE violations from mixed backslash/forward-slash
  paths on Windows ingest.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 <noreply@anthropic.com>

migrations/2026-04-17-000100_normalize_path_separators/down.sql

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+-- No-op: there's no sensible way to recover which rows originally used
+-- backslashes, and there's no reason to want backslashes back. The
+-- deleted duplicates are also gone.
+SELECT 1;